Shoot... I didn't answer the "being right" question. That is a problem for me... I've long had a need to be right. I fight that even now. I find myself overdoing the parenting role simply to "the right" one in how the kids are treated in all this.

I have been working on the need to be right and my righteousness. When you're doing that you're also judging which is a quality I know my W does not like about me.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD