Oh my gosh... me again... and since there is a delay as I am a newbie user, I can't even tell if I have responses. I am very sorry if it seems like I am babbling on!
I have a question:
SO is still deployed. His Visa expired in Dec 11. He has an automatic payment that comes off of it montly for a storage locker where he stores his truck. I reminded this to him at the beginning of Dec. I gave him the international number he was to call from to activate the new Visa which came in the mail for him. I was then to call the storage company to give the updated info.
I reminded him once before Christmas. Then when he didn't contact me for Christmas and our huge rupture happened on Dec 27, it fell by the wayside. On the 28th I sent him a mess telling him that if he hadn't activated the card to let me know so I could put the storage charge on my Visa and I would then take the cash out of his account to reimburse me. He finally answers and says "yes please, just do that"
Then today, I called the company and made the change. I sent him a quick email letting him know the change had been made and that I would be withdrawling the cash from his account tonight.
He writes back: Thank you Oneeleven for all that you do for me
My question: Should I be doing a 180 here? Should I have let him fall on his face - credit wise since he dropped the ball? Ugg.. I need advice! lol
I have two more months of this. Although, I don't see many more opps like the storage one to present itself where he will "need" me.
All the stuff I do for him, he doesn't see from there. Like...
Shoveling the drive way Keeping everything ship shape in the house Paying his bills Showing his doggie love
