Mare, I hear You friend! I think he HAS a soul, its just burried in his sickness. Whether its for the best or not I think I also would have to confront him one last time. Show him the proof, and ask the puopose of his continued lieing. Perhaps he dosent understand that YOU can deal with the truth. Obviously He prefers to avoid it, so I am sure he reads that feeling into you also. I can understand about wanting him gone. You have tried sooo hard and been through so much! He has been given so many opportunities to come clean and he just CANT DO IT! I dont know what else you can do. Please be very carefull, protect yourself, dont argue in the car OK? We will be with you! Concerned for you, Tempest