I'm sorry, but so much happened yesterday. When were at lunch with D, he said I received a weird text message from my 1st wife, he said maybe I shouldn't tell you because you might go psycho on me. I asked what is it. His 1st wife sent him a text on New Years Day saying something along these lines "Happy New Years and I love you". And he read the rest of the text that went back and forth. I just looked at him and say you are right that is weird and change the subject. And I did not go psycho on him. But why would he even mentioned this to me? He doesn't tell me about the texts he receives from his co-workers.

Then last night when we were watching TV and he heard a unusual female name he looked at me and said that reminds me the other night when I went out with my brother for drinks and he got up and this lady looked over at me and said hi and told me her name, but she was with her husband, which was playing pool. I said okay, why are you telling me this. Oh hearing that unusual name just reminded me and I didn't want you to think she was trying to pick me up. I said Okay then and continued to watch TV. Once again I did not react or go psycho.

I have been working on me over reacting and hopefully he can see this.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)