The fog and deranged, crazy behaviour will persist for as long as the affair does. His brain is flooded with love chemicals which make proper judgement and decision making impossible - it's literally a drug in his blood.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)