I think you're handling it well moving slowly. I don't claim to be an expert, but with the on-line dating that I have had...moving slowly worked well. I was never disappointed when we finally did meet.

I started with the online chatting and then eventually a phone call. Then we met for something low-key. Coffee is good.

The guy I dated for four years, RC, (the reason I am back on here), that is how we started. There were others too who turned into relationships and one is still a great friend. So I know it can work.

Sounds like you have the right frame of mind.


Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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