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Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2) rickb89 #2209877 01/03/12 12:19 AM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 335 WA K kolja Member
kolja Member K Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 335 WA	Great post Rick. Though our situations are slightly different (my wife is out of the house - but almost ALL her stuff is still here, and she's SAID she wants a divorce, will mention it briefly once every 7-10 days but hasnt filed or anything), I feel like my wife's past traumas and my own actions/inactions exacerbating them play a huge role in what's going on. So I've bookmarked the thread so when it gets frustrating, or feeling TOO uphill, I can come back for inspiration. Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12

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DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 05:22 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Mach1	12/29/11 06:10 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	12/29/11 06:34 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 07:07 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 07:12 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Mach1	12/29/11 07:18 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 07:21 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	12/29/11 07:40 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 08:03 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 08:07 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Mach1	12/29/11 08:10 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 11:53 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	12/29/11 11:53 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/01/12 09:54 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Rick1963	01/01/12 10:01 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/02/12 05:20 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/02/12 06:15 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/02/12 06:30 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/03/12 12:17 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/01/12 10:16 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/02/12 04:10 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/02/12 06:34 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/02/12 06:52 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/02/12 07:50 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/03/12 12:19 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/03/12 04:13 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/03/12 04:20 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/03/12 06:28 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/04/12 08:41 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/04/12 01:06 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 02:37 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/04/12 02:43 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	sayitaintso	01/04/12 02:52 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 03:49 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 03:46 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/04/12 05:45 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/04/12 06:29 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 11:52 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/05/12 02:21 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/05/12 03:26 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/07/12 04:41 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/07/12 05:06 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/08/12 04:44 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/08/12 05:59 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/08/12 11:05 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/08/12 11:43 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/09/12 03:36 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/09/12 03:44 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 04:10 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 05:05 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/10/12 01:11 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/10/12 05:55 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/10/12 06:10 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/10/12 06:54 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/11/12 01:39 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/11/12 02:42 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 05:07 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/10/12 05:20 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/10/12 05:46 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 04:01 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 03:41 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/10/12 04:18 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/10/12 04:19 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/10/12 05:37 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/11/12 01:42 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	CO1978	01/11/12 01:52 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/11/12 02:07 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/11/12 06:16 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/11/12 02:37 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/11/12 03:06 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	sayitaintso	01/11/12 03:58 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/11/12 05:18 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/11/12 06:38 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/11/12 06:59 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/11/12 08:01 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/11/12 08:20 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	MrBond	01/11/12 08:59 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/12/12 03:51 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/12/12 04:09 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/12/12 04:35 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/12/12 04:24 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/12/12 04:29 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/12/12 04:31 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	~ kd ~	01/15/12 05:46 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/15/12 06:28 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/15/12 12:57 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	sayitaintso	01/15/12 03:16 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/15/12 05:54 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/16/12 05:36 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/16/12 05:44 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Harrier	01/16/12 06:36 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Mach1	01/16/12 08:38 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/16/12 08:48 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/17/12 03:14 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	macvspc	01/17/12 03:19 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 03:42 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 04:03 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/17/12 04:31 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 05:11 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Grmpy_Mnky	01/17/12 05:23 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 05:35 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/17/12 08:15 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 09:49 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/17/12 09:57 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Grmpy_Mnky	01/17/12 10:32 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	ces67	01/18/12 12:14 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/18/12 12:35 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/18/12 06:41 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/20/12 09:42 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/20/12 09:51 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/20/12 09:54 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/22/12 04:28 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/22/12 04:51 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/22/12 04:57 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 04:32 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 04:25 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/22/12 05:13 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 04:35 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/23/12 05:35 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/22/12 08:20 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/23/12 01:34 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/23/12 03:57 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 05:07 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/23/12 05:09 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 03:37 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/23/12 03:47 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 05:04 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 03:36 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Mach1	01/23/12 04:17 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/23/12 04:30 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 06:06 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 06:25 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	~ kd ~	01/24/12 06:48 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 06:57 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 08:37 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 08:48 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	2thepoint	01/24/12 09:10 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 09:53 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/24/12 10:03 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	BklynMom	01/24/12 10:22 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	purgatory	01/25/12 02:52 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	sayitaintso	01/25/12 03:01 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Broken74	01/25/12 03:55 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	nhmom	01/25/12 04:18 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 08:06 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/24/12 07:56 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/18/12 01:02 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Grmpy_Mnky	01/18/12 03:12 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/17/12 03:40 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/16/12 05:38 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/12/12 01:42 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	labug	01/12/12 01:43 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	kolja	01/12/12 03:09 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/15/12 05:40 AM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Grmpy_Mnky	01/11/12 02:46 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/10/12 05:34 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/09/12 03:20 PM
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Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 11:50 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	Harrier	01/04/12 03:45 PM
Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)	rickb89	01/04/12 03:53 PM

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