Bea is correct about finding other ways to posture like a proud peacock.
It's easier to just let them swing in the wind. I wouldn't put a photo of you and a nice looking man out there for them to see. Don't lower yourself to their level. Continue to hold your head up, back straight, and look everyone in the eye and smile. You have far too much class to go to such lengths.
Bea, I'm glad to see you are getting better!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.