They find ways - look at IBs husband! The alt simply makes their narcissitic posturing easier, and more hurtful if we choose to look. I don't. Told xh that I thought it was for the under 25s [not sure I really believe that, but I said it pleasantly in a 'I can't believe that someone of your age would be on it . . . ' tone.]
I am getting better and better at not letting xh get to me. Yay. Just about fully detached.
