Hey Purg, I know this was a big blow to you and I'm really sorry You handeled the situation with complete dignity though and I'm sure your husband didn't expect that response from you.
I am the queen of breaking the rules. I can't say that it has helped me, but I totally understand why you are doing it. Just make sure you mentally prepare for whatever his response may be so that you can handle the sitch when it arises because it can turn ugly very quickly.
I hope that you have an amazing dinner with your kids. I wish that I was able to give you great advice like you always give me, but lately I am screwing up left and right so I wouldn't trust a word that I say. On the other hand, if you just want to yell and scream I will be more than happy to join along.
I'll be thinking about you ((( )))
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11