Noticed that W has been drinking more than her usual. I don't know if I did the right thing but everyone has been urging me to tell my D my side. After dinner on Saturday I called her and she sat with us. I told her that I was very sorry but that I did not wanted what was happening. I said she needed to hear from the both of us. W had already spoken to her. I was too sad to even talk to her about it. My W was upset and said that I was not being fair.I was calm and polite my D was visibly upset. Went into her room and hung out and talked. She said I am still a great dad. Hopefully I did not make a mistake. I have not said anything bad about her mother and really don't have an urge.
One thing that is happening is that I think I am detaching. W continues with her schedule barn for 3 to 4 hrs and than works the rest of the time 7 days a week. Guess she has been a WAS for almost 3 years now.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
