Also, I am wondering if any of you have experience with no discussion/confirmation of OW/OM? He won't admit it to me. But I saw proof. He probably doesn't want to admit it as it can get him in trouble with the Army.
But I am sure this is how he can go to so easily throwing away what we have and wanting it to be over the moment he gets back.
I think before, after Thailand, thats why he was keeping me afloat with the "lets see how it is when I get home" because he wasn't sure. Now with OW it makes sense that he'd want me out of his life ASAP and for sure.
God I need help!
Or do you guys think since we weren't married that I should cut my losses and move on?
Does that piece of paper matter to what effort you put in to keeping a relationship alive?