I have a book entitled Depression Fallout The Impact of Depression on Couples and What You Can Do to Preserve the Bond (sheesh-long title) I've only skimmed it, so can't really recommend it but you might want to look at some of the online reviews. Also google Storied Mind.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss