Thank you so much. I will reread her posts.

I went dark before, I can do it again. I guess I fell off the wagon because of the holidays. Now that they are over with, I will get back to working on myself and not put energy into him.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)