25 knows her stuff. Read, and re-read her posts. I've learned so much from her posts to me and to others.

I'd definitely stop the texting unless it's D related. You can do it. Trust me, the first day or two there's no texts from you about the relationship or live in general, he'll notice. And wonder.

My sitch is far from over but it's looking up. And I can tell you without a doubt that everything 25 is telling you was crucial. I finally got to a point where I decided to GAL and go dark. Not only am I a better man because of it, but at the moment my WAW is pursuing ME.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012