Another minor step in the right direction - or at least positive enough that I'll take it.

Today (again via texts, I feel like its her comfort zone - and not just with me), we exchanged new year's greetings, and I said that I had hoped the wedding went well and that she had a good time. She replied that everything had gone really well. I said that she must feel really good about all that, considering all the work she had done. She said that she did, but that she was glad it was done! (There were 270 guests and it was quite a lot of work). I said it must be a huge relief for her. We pretty much ended it there. She definitely seemed happy that it went as well as it did, and DEFINITELY relieved it was over!

Claiming it as a small victory, and onto enjoying the rest of my Sunday night before yet ANOTHER day off (four day weekends are the BEST).

Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12