Your post is beautiful. It is true love to give her that gift.

"Instead of looking at her actions in light of how they affect me I am looking at her in terms of how I can help her"

I have moments when I have similar feelings for my H. I mean looking at these WAS they look so possessed it is hard not to feel bad for them sometimes.

I think your new perspective will have a imperceptible yet enormous effect.

To say you will give W as much time as she needs is a true 180 for anyone and so unconditionally loving.

I wish I could say I will give H as much time as he needs right now I have till April.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13