La Bug-Clouds in my Coffee

[BklynMom]

IMHO you are too cut off from your H and I think you need to test the waters a little so he can see your changes.

I think you should call him or email him, talk about the kids, your movie suggestion and mention you would love to finish the finance conversation you had last month when he was ready. Let him know that he can email you a time & date for the meeting.

Show him the new you, that you are forgiving but dont want to short change yourself.