Ex came by the house to pick up daughter for the day. He was somewhat sad looking. He was pleasant to me and very agreeable to the schedule with daughter so I was grateful for that. He will be coming by in the morning to drop her off. I am seeing him alot more that usual. I don't know if this is good or bad, it is just different. I am much more detached so it is not playing on my emotions like before. Before he left, I wished him a happy New Year and shook his hand. He kind of chuckled at this gesture, but oh well.....

He still talks in projections at times but he is far from being the monster he used to be.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11