Thanks for the advice. Yes new year, fresh start.

GAL--I was doing ok with this until I had surgery the 15th of December. So I have been down with that. I have few more weeks before I will be 100% back to my GAL.

I did text him this evening to find out what time he wanted me to drop our D off to him in the morning.

And a few other texts, then that was it.

My goal is continue to detach except if it concerns our D. I can do this. I did it before!

Once the doctor releases me, I am going to join a gym to get toned up.

Tax season is around the corner, so I will be very busy with that for several months. Also, school starts again tomorrow. I have that 3 nights a week. I can return to my job on January 9th.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)