Forward, That is a really good point. The midlifers worship us in the beginning of our relationship and then devalue us at the end. My ex always put me on a pedestal, I loved it but always knew that there was something very dysfunctional about it. It was what he needed to see at the time. A distortion of the truth....... The distortion continues until they wake up, if they do.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
