feeling like giving up.....former DBing against OW

[Abbey]

I don't think they know what to do with themselves. They think that simple one off gestures mean their trying. Men in A-mode in particular, seem wired that way.

Maybe next time try: I've got it covered, but thanks. Nothing more, nothing less.

It seems sometimes that we get so caught in the spin cycle that we don't know what to do with what used to be respectable behavior from our WAS's.

Best I can suggest is polite simple responses... even if you're mad as hell at him. Try those, it might lead to a that first grip hold that seems to be eluding the both of you. Even when he's being a right a/hole... just be polite.

Cheers
Abs