Hey - I am not the one to preach to anyone about patience. But I'm going to here. It's hard, it's not emotionally rewarding much, you get your feelings hurt, you cry, you give and don't get, but it is all for a good purpose. If you really don't want to be with your W anymore - then it's OK to hit the eject button on this process. But if you still want her back, you are going to have to patiently and lovingly let her run her course through whatever she is going through. I am finding that is what I am having to do, and it stinks because it is not on my schedule and there is no instant gratification. As they say in football, this is truly a game of inches.
