Thanks cadet.

Hi 25. No, I don't think it's pointless to post there. Not sure I understand why you ask. I am assuming that not everyone participating in the forums reads every topic of every forum, so I figured those reading this forum might have some insight into the question I posed. I don't see the need for mutual excusive posting. More the merrier I say for searching out help, insight, and wisdom from a variety of perspectives.

I'd be very interested in hearing why some might not think she is going through a mlc. This effort she's engaged in to drop the past, re-define herself, and seek out a new career (which btw she was away again fri/sat and apparently interviewing, and last night was a backslide hoping for some more info and my opportunity to support her, didn't go so well) seems very symptomatic. I can re-post this to my other thread, I just wasn't sure that everyony reading this forum would catch my mlc questions in the newcomers.

Thanks, as always for everyone's help.