"When H moved in with ow he told me she was PERFECT and that would never change..."

New Guy is very complimentary of me and I teased him and said he was leaving me a long way to fall. But he gets that.

I don't want to be with someone who sees me as perfect. Of course, for a lot of people it's either perfection or She-Devil.

Come to think of it, given the choice between being perfect or the She-Devil, I prefer She-Devil.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D