Okay, I did send H a text after he left:

Me.: I have a question. are u afraid to be with me w/o our D?

H: No. don't know what u mean.

Me: I know u are confused about what u want but if u and I don't spend any us time together (w/o D) how will u know what u really want? Just asking.

H: Im not ready for that yet

Me: okay. thats fine. I understand. Maybe 2012 will be better 4 us.

Okay, I know what everyone on here will say, it's pursuing.
Hit me with the 2x4s.

I hope and pray that everyone has a Happy and Safe New Year.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)