Destiny,
Your h doesn't know what he wants. He sounds depressed and until he seeks assistance w/his depression, he's going to blah about everything.

Trust me, if he was ready to go out that door, he would be making moves.

My advice still stands, concentrate on you and your activities. There's no need for you to be pulled down into the dark hole w/him. Someone has to say above ground to keep an eye on finances, etc.

I am only going to say this once....don nag him, stop pointing out when he does things wrong or not up to your expectations. If he can't make himself happy, how can he make you happy?

Destiny, if you continue to nag and point out the error of his ways, he is going to walk. Leave him alone and allow him time to figure things out. The upbeat, positive Destiny is what draws him to you. The depressed, whiny, clingy Destiny will not.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.