I think you should only pay for your own stuff. She needs to figure out the apartment herself. You can tell the kids that you are going live in different places but do not mention divorce. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
