I want to be like my H and just turn my emotions and my feelings off for him, but I can't.

He is on call Monday and he said he may need my help with our D. So, if I receive a text from him asking for my help, I am going to tell him that I have plans. And if he calls me, then I will let it go straight to voice mail. If it's important he will leave a message.

I am going to stop being so available to him.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)