I've read the five love languages. I'll read the other. Her languages are acts of service and praise. I do those and it seems like she takes advantage of it all.
Her view is that I am a weak little man that will do anything to keep her happy. She thinks I'm afraid of losing her and I will always be there no matter what. In fact, I told her that I would wait on the sex thing...then I did the acts of service and praise. Three weeks later she was online and super adament that I am unattractive.
I really think she wants a guy that is going to come in and take control. She only responded to me sexually when I took her and had my way with her...I was rougher than usual. I did what I wanted to her.
Bottom line is that I think the acts of service stuff doesn't work right now.
Also, the more I think of having sex with her the more I do not want to. Thinking about the other guy and such turns me off completely. Even I she offered, I'd probably turn her down.
