Thank you guys so much!! I have no idea what I would do without all of your support.
Rick, you are right! From this moment on, NO MORE CONFRONTING. Nothing positive or constructive has come from it. I have been walking quite a bit, but I need to get my lazy butt to the gym.
Hopeful, thank you so much for sharing your story on being a WAW it is so nice to have insight into what our spouses are thinking and going through. I am really sorry that you now find yourself on the other side of the fence so to speak. Both sides really stink. Hang in there!
Purg, LOL I love that you are spunky and have a trucker's mouth just like me! You always give the best advice and you are funny as he11
You're right the fact that they want to be 'friends' feels like they want to have their cake and eat it too! They are so consumed with themselves that it is almost sickening. They are most definetely "taking care of themselves." You'd think their behavior would make it a little easier for us to kick their a$$es to the curb and move on
LB, I'm glad that I am not the only one that has screwed up I have a feeling she may back out of going hiking. Depending on how I feel tomorrow I may or may not go. If I am feeling angry and bitter I will let her know that I am not feeling up to it.
Looking back I should have come to this board and vented instead of confronting. Oh well, lesson learned! Time to pick myself up, let some of the anger go and shut down this damn pitty party.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11
