Thanks Guys,

I've introduced confusion -- W is not saying she's not getting the quality time she needs now -- she is, and says her needs are fully met. She was simply saying that she appreciated the dilemma between acceptance and having your needs met when she decided to have the affair and leave me. The quality time absence is no longer an issue.

Will post more later

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015