On an interesting note!!! My Best friend called me to let me know that H had a revelation (unfortunately, not about me)... but it went something like this:

H: so, you remember that girl who lives near dad? You and (purg) said she was pursuing and wanted more than a friendship? Well, I'm sorry I didn't believe you then, because I do now. She's made a few comments on my FB page about my recent pictures and I'm really uncomfortable. What should I do?

my friend: Well, Im glad you finally came around. I think you should tell her directly that you don't want anything to do with her, since ignoring her hasn't worked this whole time.

H: I guess. I was trying to be nice and hope she would get the hint, but I can see that she not that type.

SO here's what I noticed about all that: He must have meant it when he said that he didn't want to date now (he said that a month ago and 4 days ago as well) because he would have had the perfect chance to take advantage of her advances... and he doesn't want to smile AND I think it's funny that he didn't call me to discuss this realization- probably because he doesn't want to give me the satisfaction of knowing that I was right about her and her true intentions. Maybe he wants me to be a little jealous ('cause he knows I"ll see the FB comments) and is testing me to see if I'll confront him about them (which I normally would) BUT I am going to show him a 180 and NOT CONFRONT HIM.... doesn't matter that my feelings are already put to ease because my best friend told me the whole story.

I'm I getting too excited about this? Anybody see this as a good thing? OR did he set me up and is covering his tracks because he really did want to do something with her and he knows that my bf will tell me everything?? Sh!t- that thought just hit me.

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12