Itm, I saw drafts of letters my H wrote to ow. Some of them looked like journaling. He wrote things he had never expressed to me. After all, we are supposed to read their minds, you know.
My theory on this is that they don't tell us because they're projecting and we know it. OW, however, will look at him with puppy dog eyes and tell him he's so hard done by. She can't hold him to his bs because she doesn't know him. She can, however, uphold the narrative he's decided to write in his head to justify his behaviour, blame LBS and avoid responsibility for his actions and the pain he has caused.
In the case of the WAS, they don't even consider us reading their minds because none of it is real, blaming and *concerns* about the LBS didn't exist before the affair.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
