You are definitely on the right track. But you need to sloooow down and be more patient.
He is probably confused himself and doesnt know if he can trust the new you. Continue not to initiate relationship talk. When he talks about legalizing child support just say nothing or if you have to say something say "I understand why you feel you need to do that".
Continue to dress to impress.
He is as confused as you are, do not add any pressure. You are on the right track.
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