Why don't you give yourself a month to just DO NOTHING - you don't have to decide anything. Just continue flirting and communicating the way you have been, and be patient. All will be revealed in time - avoid the urge to force an outcome.
Thanks Ellie. You really hit the nail on the head. I think that is what I've been feeling, but didn't know what it was.
I think I feel like I'm supposed to make a decision now, but why? A few others have said the same....give it some time and let it play out, whatever happens.
I didn't realize I was possibly forcing an outcome -- thank you for pointing that out to me! Good point!
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