Unfortunately, I have been on both sides. I was once a WAS and now I am LBS. So I am able to see both sides. But as a LBS, I still mess up. I did everything my first husband did to me and it pushed me farther away. Now, my H is starting to take baby steps back to me but very slowly. But I still need to detach from him because I feel like he is also using me because of our D.
