Labug, I dont remember if you have ever used a DB coach or not but they are really good at helping with some strategy like how to let H see your changes. I find the coaches are not as pro going dark as most of the posters on these boards.

The coaches really emphasize having the WAS see the changes and initiating some contact may be okay. You need to try something and see if it brings him closer, pushes him away, or is neutral.

Kind of that he hasnt tried to hang with his S more over Christmas break. Probably is due to some form of depression. Its like he dug a hole and is just gonna sit in it.

Thanks for your kind words on my thread I definitely needed some cheering up.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13