You are right. I need to go dark. I feel like he is using me to help him with our D when he has her.

I did ask him if he wanted to do something tomorrow night and he said that he had plans but if they fell threw, he would let me know. How to make someone feel second. I told him that since he didn't want to do something together, then I would go ahead with my plans. He asked what kind of plans did I have. I told him that I was some friends for drinks.

I need to dim/dark and work on detaching again. I hate this!!!!


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)