I've skimmed thru your other threads. Honey, your husband is doing what he does. You talked to his ex-wife.

I see that you bought the DR book. Did you read it?

Someone else mentioned books on codependence. Did you read any of those.

Can you list 3 things you've done to GAL?

What 180s are you doing?

Originally Posted By: Hopeful321
I am scared if I go dark, then I am just pushing him towards her or someone else.
He's already gone, at least if you go dark he might have a chance to miss you.

Hope won't fix this, you have to work on you, as hard as it seems. Your daughter is depending on YOU.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss