W called me shortly after I got home today. She was checking to see if she got any mail (must have been getting off from work). She said she is still waiting on her bank card and credit card to come in mail.

I asked her if she was okay on money and had enough money for gas, she said she was okay. She returned the Christmas gift she got me (she was going to exchange it for something different) and used that money for gas. She said she didn't want to do that, but had no choice, because money was tight right now. I reminded her that she could open an account with my bank still, so she wouldn't have to get the run around. She said she might do that.

She said she still wasn't sure about her plans for New Years, and if I wanted S I could probably have him. She mentioned to me her options, she could go out with her, or her co-worker friend, or her friend who just broke up with her fiancé. She said that friend would probably need her the most. I told her that she should probably go there then.

She again said she didn't plan on getting drunk. I told her (joking) that it only took 2 drinks to do that, she laughed and agreed. She said she would probably go to friend's house (the one who broke up with fiancé) and help her cook some food for New Years day. I told her it was a good time to try the (Christmas gift) Robert Irvine book I got her. She said that was a good idea.

I told her I would call her if bank cards came tomorrow, then she said ok, we will figure out what we will do for S.

Sorry to everyone if I keep journaling. I am pretty much just checking in on everyone, not posting much else. Trying to keep my head in the game!


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped