Still reading the 5 love languages and boy have I learned a lot. I obviously did not speak my H's primary love languages and his love tank was running on empty for a long time. He has been meeting my emotional needs, so that's why I never thought there was anything wrong with us. But his needs were not met and he was building up his anger and resentment for a long time. Now that I know what I need to do, I so wish I could do them, but because of the state that he's in right now, there is no way he'd let me. His primary languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. I guess what I need to do is to let him weather the storm and let him settle his emotions. In the meantime, I need to GAL and work on improvements for myself. And maybe when things are more calm and he is less angry and hostile, maybe then I can try to softly "speak" his language. And maybe then his love tank can start to fill up slowly. But will he ever let me? Will he ever forgive my ignorance in not learning his primary love languages? He's so hurt right now that I'm not sure he ever will.
