Do you think the "I hate you" comment was playful or truthful? Either way, to me, it's a terrible thing to say.
It sounds to me like you are pursuing. I'm no expert, but it sounds to me like you need to GAL more and go dark as much as possible.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012