I needed your 'upbeat' nature this morning I'm so happy for you that you've come to develop a new R with your sons. It is too bad that your H is choosing to let his R with them go downhill, but like you said- it's nothing you can do anything about. It does sound like H might be depressed- probably why S doesn't like to be around him.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12