Is there still hope?

[HHIF]

Thank you for that,it is amazing how much of your story sounds like mine.We too were looked at at the ideal couple,people called us Ken and Barbie,my wife didn't stay home with kids we have both always worked but money has still been tight and I know that is something that bothers her.
My wife also said that I tried to control her and kept her from spending time with friends and wanted all of her time with me,there is some truth to that.
I also heard her say"I have grown and we have just grown apart"
I am working on the 180s and not pursuing her but for the most part haven't seen much change.
I still love her but after so long of her treating me like just some guy she knows and having no physical contact I'm starting to see her differently,where once I couldn't even think about life without her now I can see myself moving on.
Not sure if that is good or not,I am still praying and trusting God to change the way she sees me and our marriage but know that she has free will and may not ever change her way of seeing things.