"Her recent overtures maybe lost something in the translation but after she cooked you or made you some food &offered it, you said you had already eaten and left the room"
25 that^^^^was an intersting observation. W is on vacation this week so on Tuesday she got up to make me breakfast I told her she did not have to and thought I was being caring and thoughtful. I wonder how many times I have done this? Trying to be caring but came accross as uncaring? But I trully was trying to be that. In regards to the the "I have eaten already" it was 10 pm and just had dinner at brother's house. So I was not hungry.
It is true I have only blown up like I did this summer a handful of times. But I have said cruel things without any blow ups.
Regarding my sons there is no one to blame but myself. I can only be better from now on and I am in contact with the younger one. The eldest is angrier at me. But will keep trying.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
