You need to follow your heart, not the therapist. I can't believe how many therapist out there say get a divorce instead of saying you need to give all you can. My MC did not help us at all, a matter of fact, she did more harm than good.

If you really want this marriage then fight for it. I sent our therapist a letter telling her that she did more harm than good. And that I was not giving up on our marriage as she did. I never heard from her. LOL

That is my 2cents worth.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)