Last night after the hug and he was leaving, he said "I hate you". I just said "I know." I know he really doesn't, but why does he keep saying that? Is he trying to convince himself?

Also, how can I piece my marriage back together if the OW is texting him 9:00 at night? He read the text message but did not reply.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)