Val I trully.know and own up to my part. I have been looking at what I did and agree that I had a big part in the break up of my M. But I did take full blame. I don't wish to rewrite history. When I had my blow ups What I would say was "if you are not happy leave me or D me" That is what I recall but I guess it is the same as me threatening that I wanted one.
I do see where you are getting at and I agree that she felt unable to express herself for fear it would anger me.The one thing that I have tbeen hinking is that I dI'd not live in a state of perpetual anger. Truthfully I can only remember a handful. But any disagreement with W I guess she put them all in the same category. Thanks for the input Val.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
