I've been posting for some time now in newcomers but am hoping I might hear some good stuff here as well.
Can someone provide me some insight into why it is ok to decide to drop all your commitments, chase a new career dream, while leaving a spouse (one that is supportive and encouraging with all career related thing), and hurt the kids in the process. I just don't get it.
And while I'm at it, how is it the kids are 50% my responsibility however I don't have any say over her abilility to pull the rug out from under us all and hurt them.
